You always run into people who are no where near any type of Christian and they can always tell you what you did wrong. Usually when I run into these types of people I just tend to listen, one those be seen and not heard moments. One thing I did learn is that you can not judge anyone not unless you expect the same in return. A lot of people will say," well I don't want to ignore the fact",  then the realization sets in. It's really not that serious because everyone feels and believes differently.